On this partaking and heartfelt episode, Peg Fitzpatrick welcomes Sandra Sallin, an inspiring content material creator who has made waves within the social media world along with her charming YouTube channel. Collectively, they discover the artwork of constructing real connections on-line, Sandra’s distinctive on-camera confidence and the important function well being and group play as we age. The dialog additionally highlights the ability of Sandra’s storytelling on her YouTube channel and the impression of genuine interactions in nurturing a energetic, supportive group.
Be part of us for a pleasant mixture of knowledge, humor, and motivation to pursue your passions and preserve curiosity at any stage of life.
Prime Takeaways:
- Constructing genuine connections makes an actual impression in social media.
- Pursuing content material creation out of your passions retains it enjoyable and relatable.
- Confidence on digital camera can come from treating the viewers like pals.
- Well being consciousness and common check-ups are essential, particularly as we age.
- Group thrives on significant interactions, not simply likes or numbers.
- Authenticity resonates deeply, fostering viewers loyalty and connection.
- Getting old gracefully might be empowering and encourage others.
- Private tales can uplift and inspire audiences in their very own journeys.
- Curiosity and openness to studying are key to lifelong progress and success.
- Real, private engagement enhances on-line connections and assist.
Chapters:
- 00:00 – Constructing Genuine Connections
- 08:55 – The Journey to Content material Creation
- 17:57 – Authenticity and Confidence on Digicam
- 25:09 – Well being, Getting old, and Group Constructing
- 34:00 – Empowerment By way of Storytelling and Connection
Whether or not you’re beginning out or trying to reconnect along with your inventive spark, this episode is a reminder that it’s by no means too late to share your voice and make a distinction on-line. Tune in, get impressed, and uncover how Sandra’s journey can inspire you to embrace your path confidently and authentically.
PLEASE observe Sandra’s YouTube Channel right here
PODCAST:
Transcript with Audio system Peg Fitzpatrick and Sandra Sallin (that is an AI transcript so it isn’t excellent)
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:05.038):
As we speak we’re going to discuss constructing genuine connections with Sandra Sallin, who’s my good friend and she or he’s going to affix us. I’ll deliver her in as quickly as she is right here.
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:27.566):
Thanks for becoming a member of. Let me know the place you guys are. I am gonna strive saying, there we go. Howdy. It labored. Woo, take a look at us doing the web. How spectacular is that? I do know. Wealthy was like, you are going reside with Sandra. Is it gonna be like six hours lengthy? I am like, no, we might not do this to folks. So hiya, everyone. I’m Peg Fitzpatrick.
And that is certainly one of my social success collection. And as we speak, as I discussed, we’re going to speak with Sandra Sallin, who’s actually certainly one of my favourite folks on the entire whole planet. And he or she is so inspiring. You guys are going to like listening to what Sandra has to say. So I am very glad you are right here, Sandra. Thanks. Welcome to my speak present.
Sandra Sallin:
Is not that enjoyable? I really like that concept.
Peg Fitzpatrick
So you might be, as I discussed, so inspiring to me. And a part of that’s since you are an 80, and I am not making a gift of your age, since you say it in your individual bio, however you might be, you ought to be. You are an 83-year-old magnificence creator and you might be like a phenomenon on Instagram and YouTube. Individuals love you and your content material. So are you able to inform me what’s impressed your ardour for creating movies and Instagram content material?
Sandra Sallin
It wasn’t actually me. Effectively, to start with, do you want me higher with glasses or with out?
Peg Fitzpatrick:
I really like each. I imply, if you happen to want them to see, then go away them on. However I imply, they, you at all times look nice with glasses. I by no means put on mine on-line.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. Effectively, my husband likes glasses additionally. Yeah. Okay. So what impressed me? I wasn’t impressed. What occurred was my son mentioned, you have to do movies, mother. And also you mentioned, you have to do movies, Sandy. And I mentioned, huh?
I do not know what to do. What am I going to speak about? And so, so I did not and it took me without end and it was silly as a result of my son at the very least as soon as a month would say, you have to do movies, mom. However I actually did not know what I used to be going to speak about. Then do you need to know extra?
Peg Fitzpatrick (02:49.816):
Hold going. I am listening.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. So then what occurred was I watched someone on YouTube speaking about how if you happen to’re looking for one thing and also you’re one particular person, you have to know that there are hundreds looking for a similar factor. And what I used to be looking for was make-up for the mature. And I am speaking about actually mature. I am not speaking about these little, these teen. And your 30s. Yeah, 30s, 40s. My God, I am 50. I am speaking about 60s, 70s and 80s. Yeah. have been lots of people. And I believed, nicely, since I am actually enthusiastic about it, possibly that is what I am going to do.
Sandra Sallin:
I began with, you will love this, as a result of I really like doing Instagram lives as a result of I actually felt like I used to be speaking to folks. So I did one on lipstick and methods to make it extra luscious wanting. And I believed, nicely, I am going to do one. And folks actually appreciated it. And I believed, huh?
And so they needed extra.
Peg Fitzpatrick:
That is the way it began. Along with your love of lipstick. And by the best way, everyone, Sandra picked out this lipstick for me. I at all times put on my Chanel. It is the Chanel that you simply despatched me as a result of it is the most effective coloration. It is the most effective coloration on digital camera, actually is.
Sandra Sallin:
You realize what? It seems fabulous along with your jacket.
Peg FItzpatrick:
I did tremendous pink as we speak. Pink with extra pink. Yeah. I imply, I did not have, I despatched Sandra some pre-questions, however like simply, beginning again, a part of the explanation that your son Matt and I each assume it’s best to go reside or be on video is as a result of you might have, clearly you might have such an awesome persona, however you even have a Hollywood background of digital camera expertise and issues that possibly at this stage you were not essentially pondering, I was in commercials and I have been in entrance of the digital camera, however I believe all of these issues actually, typically are.
The backgrounds do not realize that issues that we have executed in our previous relate a lot to what we’re doing now or what, like, you actually began out, you have been gonna be, nicely, we did not even discuss your, your first most important profession was you have been a nice artist. And I do not know if there is a portray proper behind you; assume there may be that method. Yep. There’s, there’s a little bit little bit of certainly one of Sandra’s work. So Sandra was a nice artist for many years. She created like an attractive artwork. So that is Sandra’s like, subsequent factor. This is rather like a subsequent factor that she’s doing
Peg Fitzpatrick (05:14.69):
However so lots of the different issues that she did in her life, creativity and clearly being an artist is all expression, proper? However a special method. So yeah, I believe it prefer it all sort of tied into what you do now, despite the fact that it wasn’t what you probably did on your most important factor.
Sandra Sallin:
A humorous factor, I examine folks, you understand, worrying about being in entrance of a digital camera. I simply by no means was. And I do not even after I did commercials, it was at all times simply actually me and I simply by no means bothered me. I even, you understand, I believe one of many questions possibly was after I speak on like on YouTube or on Instagram, I am actually speaking to a good friend. It is not an entire group of individuals, however I believe that it is one good friend and that I am speaking, we’re out to lunch and we’re having a very nice dialog.
Peg :
So that you sort of boiled down what advertising is, despite the fact that you are not a advertising skilled, like you might have, you have created what they name like your avatar, your like preferrred buyer, your preferrred consumer, all these issues imply the identical factor, however you want boil that down with out even figuring out all of the advertising converse of similar to, I am simply going to concentrate on like one particular person and you do not assume, that is scary. We’re reside proper now. And who’s going to see the video? You are similar to, I am wanting on the digital camera, having a dialog and it is with
It is nice. Is not that attention-grabbing?
Sandra Sallin:
It’s. And you understand what else is humorous? I discuss a variety of issues that lots of people do not need to discuss or that I am photographed in a method that no person of their proper thoughts could be photographed. However I do not even assume something of it till I meet someone they usually know a lot about me and I do not perceive how they know a lot about me, not realizing that I’ve spilled all of it.
Peg:
I do know a few of your YouTube thumbnails crack me up. Your earlier than and after footage are actually the most effective. They are surely. Personally would by no means, like I really like make-up too. Sandra and I each love make-up. It is certainly one of our little bonding issues, however I’ve by no means filmed something like with no make-up to do like a prepare with me. However a part of that’s folks do not observe me for that. They’d be like, Who cares? Like we need to know the advertising side of issues. So I believe for me, folks could be like, wow, she seems a little bit drained as we speak. Why does she haven’t any coloration in her face? Trigger I’ve to say, that is one factor once you’re older coloration disappears out of your face. Prefer it’s draining out. I believe, proper?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure. do assume. Sure. Effectively, I’ve a girlfriend who owns a make-up firm and she or he was aghast and shocked. What do you imply filming proper after you have had surgical procedure? Are you out of your thoughts?
She was actually, do not do this, do not ever do this. After which she mentioned, possibly I am mistaken.
Peg Fitzpatrick (09:54.346):
It is simply, it simply takes braveness, proper? To do the no make-up factor. You realize, you simply must say, you understand what, different folks do it. I imply, I imply, to be sincere, like Hannah Martin make-up, she’s someone that you simply love, Hannah Martin. She is so stunningly stunning earlier than with no make-up. After which she places make-up on and she or he’s like,
Sandra Sallin:
Gorgeous occasions, every little thing. However you, you and I should not, Hannah’s in all probability 30s, however I imply, that was some time in the past for us. So, I imply, she does look nice earlier than and after. So we’ll return to our questions daily. And if you happen to’re watching, I’m going to do a giveaway for my new e-book on the finish. I am gonna offer you guys a secret phrase that you simply’re gonna must remark on this put up when it is on as an precise put up.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So on the finish, we’ll do a giveaway for a e-book.
Sandra Sallin:
I’ve already ordered yours.
Peg
Thanks. I admire that. What does authenticity imply to you in your put up? And the way is that? I believe you already answered that one since you talked about the way you’re simply speaking to at least one particular person. So confidence on digital camera is not simple for most individuals. What has helped construct yours? And what recommendation would you share for anybody who’s digital camera shy?
Sandra Sallin (?):
It truly is speaking to someone over lunch. That it is that I actually am speaking. I actually really feel like I am speaking to an individual. I am not. That is about it. Yeah. Type of consider it as speaking to at least one particular person. You are not speaking to hundreds. However if you happen to’re simply speaking to at least one particular person and having lunch and giving them concepts and having forwards and backwards, despite the fact that there isn’t any forwards and backwards. However it’s the best way I’d speak to someone. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin:
When was the final time I went out to lunch?
Peg: July?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do not know if it was that in July. Proper. It was with you.
Peg:
I visited Sandra in July, everyone. And we went out to lunch and it was the most effective. So that you’re continuously studying and mastering new expertise, which I believe lots of people say, you understand, anyone who’s not a millennial or above, that it is simply past them. However so what’s your secret to staying curious and open to evolving tech?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’d say that it is simply being curious. I have been, I, you understand, I’m going down deep darkish holes, you understand, to seek out the solutions to issues. And all of a sudden I will be, I am going to learn some little factor. What was it? The newest was the, the, I have been studying a collection of books by Robert Dugani and I needed to know his background. And so I am going to go deep, deep, deep, deep, deep and, and discover, discover out issues that no person is aware of about.
I used to be a beta tester and this needed to be 20, 30 years in the past. Love discovering, I consider a pc as being like this wizard and I like it and discovering out methods to do new issues, I discover it very thrilling. Imply, did not come out, am I too shut?
Peg:
I am in all probability too shut. We’re like leaning in to speak to one another. It’s very nice.
Sandra Sallin:
So after I did, so being a beta tester, I discover, as I say, pc and the iPhone similar to a wizard. I’ve bought magic in my palms. And so I need to know extra and to have the ability to do extra. I like it. Imply, I discuss my Photoshop, Instagram, and Instagram is not simple. And what else? Video enhancing. My god. That is laborious.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Video enhancing is among the hardest issues I believe.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be sincere, I believe it’s too. So do you, wait, I simply had a query. I completely misplaced my prepare of thought that I used to be gonna ask you. From Beta. Possibly it will come again to me. You understand how issues are available in your head after which they’re gone? That simply occurred.
Peg Fitzpatrick (12:10.542):
So you have constructed actually nice connections within the magnificence with magnificence influencers and different YouTubers, which I believe has helped you develop so much. What’s your method to reaching out and the way do you suggest others make these connections?
Sandra Sallin (?):
You realize, I consider them, different folks or different folks as actual folks and I do not do it to make use of folks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
But when someone has an awesome wanting outfit, I will not simply give a coronary heart or a test or a thumbs up. I am going to actually say one thing. I relate to Hannah Martin and her attractive youngsters. I could by no means discuss her make-up, however I do discuss her youngsters. And possibly she’s placing an excessive amount of emphasis on the brand new, you understand, on Bo and possibly she needs to be doing extra on Bear. I imply, I discuss, you understand, I speak to folks on an actual stage versus a pc stage and simply the outside stage that I see. I attempt to see extra than simply what’s in, you understand, simply the image. Like I simply noticed Linda, proper? How can Linda, proper, is a really, very trendy lady who has a store in Paris and attire so nice and so I discuss, you understand, how, possibly it’s best to begin sporting burlap sack.
Sandra Sallin:
I imply, it is sufficient that you simply’re so attractive. And why does anyone want a Dior pair of blue denims? I am positive no person talked to her that method. However I talked to her in a method, you understand, in an actual method. And that is how I believe I’ve gotten.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Go away genuine, like true feedback, not similar to a coronary heart and a like and a very brief factor that actually anyone may say that is not actually significant.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It doesn’t suggest something. Proper. It is very important do this. So yeah, if you happen to guys like folks’s content material, just remember to’re giving them like considerate feedback which can be greater than three phrases. YouTube, not YouTube, however Instagram actually does take a look at that. Like what number of conversations you are having in direct messages with folks, they take a look at all of these issues once they resolve who to indicate issues to. So it helps folks so much. And because the algorithms hold us from seeing folks. Like typically I’ve to go get your hands on individuals who I like as a result of they don’t seem to be exhibiting up in my feed. Then I actually ensure that I’m going to these folks. You are able to do just like the little bell or star on any of the social platforms to ensure you see all of individuals’s content material.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep, someone mentioned. I do know what you imply. Sure, I’ve executed that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, you are able to do the little bell or the little star that reveals you, so that you see all of somebody’s posts. Since you do not see stuff anymore. It is so laborious. After which I am like, You realize, I have not seen so-and-so’s stuff in a very long time. Like Hannah Martin, we’ll simply hold speaking about Hannah Martin, as a result of I really like her too. However I imply, I’ve commented on her stuff a bunch. know, I despatched her, know, like, shared her stuff earlier than. After which typically I simply do not even see it. And I do know she’s posting on a regular basis.
Sandra Sallin:
She is. I simply noticed one thing this morning and thought, nicely, I missed one thing on Sunday.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, proper. I believe a part of that’s proper now due to all of the politics stuff. I believe all of the advert spends on stuff is taking over a variety of the algorithm house, which stinks. You are proper. I’ve thought that possibly it should get again to regular ish, however who is aware of?
Peg:
Constructing a web-based group the place folks really feel seen as uncommon, what has been essentially the most rewarding a part of bringing folks collectively by means of your content material? As a result of you might have a variety of commenting in your YouTube movies and your Instagram.
Sandra Sallin:
You realize, I’m very moved that I’ve helped individuals who, you understand, they see me at 83 subsequent month, 84. Do you imagine the 12 months after that I’ll be 85? God, I do imagine it. imagine you are simply going to maintain going without end, my God.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Wait, what was I going say? So folks see me. So folks see me they usually see me doing ridiculous issues or simply being me. And this lady was writing that she was a realtor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And he or she thought, nicely, I am 65, so I must retire as a result of I do not, I am not going to do something anymore. After which she noticed my movies and she or he thought, my God, this lady is in her eighties and she or he’s doing issues and she or he’s energetic and she or he wears make-up and she or he’s on the market. you understand, she mentioned, you understand what? I finished, I went out of retirement. I began sporting make-up and I went again to work. so, sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (16:58.766):
And that is, is not that phenomenal? really feel like 65 is outdated at this level, proper? Imply, we have now much more outdated, you understand, as a result of there are individuals who retire at 25 and there are individuals who, are they going to do? I am like, what are you going to do for 60 years?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am with you, however it’s when folks, that is why I additionally discuss my well being. I need folks to know that I do not reside in some excellent world. That I’ve bought my points, no person’s life is ideal. That is why I allow them to see me wanting ridiculous. was one thing the opposite day and I would had a basal cell most cancers on my brow and I see me with an enormous bandage right here and an enormous bandage there and I believed, know, let folks see what it is actually like.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You realize, I do know the place you might have scars and I by no means ever, ever discover them on something on-line. I by no means see them.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be sincere, I do not even take note of them. Do not. They’re so, I believe it is similar to getting previous that. As a result of I believe one of many issues once you’re filming your self so much and also you’re on Instagram so much and YouTube a
your self so much, you are your self so much and it’s totally unnatural. Such as you might be actually overly essential and be like, you understand what, I am not gonna movie myself as a result of my face seems a little bit puffy as we speak or like, you understand, one million issues. And it is like, you understand what, I simply, I do not even care about that anymore as a result of that is what I appear to be as we speak, everyone like, hey, I really feel prefer it’s a superb model of me. We’re by no means gonna be excellent. There is not any excellent.
Sandra Sallin (?):
My husband, the producer director, I made a video and I simply sat down right here and I did not have any gentle. I do not even know if the sunshine is nice proper now. I simply sat down right here and I did this video. I seemed horrible, however the video did so nicely. My husband mentioned, I by no means need you to sit down down and do a video and appear to be that. And no person cares. And I did not care. I nonetheless do not.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, Bob is the most effective. Sandra’s husband, Bob, he is a legend. He’s a legend. And he is so nice with filming as a result of he has had a really lengthy profession in Hollywood doing all totally different sorts of issues, writing, producing. However largely he is Sandra’s secret weapon behind the scenes. Proper.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are so fortunate that method. I did two level lighting as we speak, so we’ll see how mine is. You had California sunshine. I look darkish or not, however anyway, I did it myself. Effectively, you will discover out later.
Peg Fitzpatrick (19:22.378):
You are so proper. I? Sure, you are proper. Completely bought kicked off Instagram. That is week two. So that isn’t cool. I’ll attempt to add Sandra again in once more and I’ll end up our Instagram reside the place we’re speaking about authenticity and right here we go I am including being on-line and being your self and the way that connects with folks. So I do not know why Instagram, that is the second time you might have bumped me off whereas I am reside. Sorry, Sandra, that’s week two the place I bought like simply randomly knocked off. Sandra bought knocked off, I am gonna add her in once more. Instagram will not be loving us as we speak, hiya. I carry on seeing this white display that claims request to be on this reside video. Effectively, you are reside now.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Now we’re again reside. I do not know why that occurred two weeks in a row. Now you simply popped out once more. I’ll pull you again in. Instagram is preventing us with every little thing it has. Possibly Sandra’s web is not nice. I am probably not positive, however I am making an attempt so as to add her again in. OK. I do not know why it retains knocking you off, however I am gonna override it and hold bringing you again in. How dare they? kidding. So I can not see myself. All I see is a white display saying-
Peg;
However you might be reside. I can see you and also you’re reside now. Then let’s simply do it and I can not see myself, which might be nice. I would love to not see myself proper now. So earlier than we get kicked off once more, I am gonna do a giveaway of my e-book. So that you guys, if you’re watching now, the key phrase is social success, which I am going to present you social success. So when that is posted, you simply must remark within the feedback and say social success and simply say one factor that you simply appreciated about this Instagram reside with Sandra and I, and you will be entered tomorrow.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ll select a winner. You do should be in america as a result of transport is exorbitant lately. I went to ship a e-book and it was $12 and that was within the U.S. I used to be like, geez, put up workplace. I do not know the way Amazon does it. However take a look at how a lot a is. Is not it 79 cents? is. One thing loopy. is. Completely loopy. the place have been we? We talked about constructing your group. We’re on constructing your group and the way commenting and simply constructing the group. Effectively, it helps your content material develop as a result of when folks remark,
Peg Fitzpatrick (22:23.31):
And so once you’re on YouTube, what are your methods for constructing your group? Do you might have any?
Sandra Sallin:
I want I did. I must learn your e-book. I do not assume I’ve a method. I attempt to be as sincere as I can. I am not sincere. I do make-up, however then I get bored. And what did I lately do? I did a factor about how I misplaced weight.
Sandra Sallin:
And about how I am exercising. However I believe individuals are loving that.
Peg:
Persons are loving that you simply’re strolling and also you’re sharing it. And folks don’t know how hilly your neighborhood is. Sandra’s neighbor will not be like Little Hills is. She’s in like a, she’s on a mountain sort of, proper? Aren’t you?
Sandra:
I imply, simply the opposite day I did my final of doing all of those hills and I believed to myself, after which I used to be presupposed to exit at evening and I believed, I do not know if I can do it. I actually.
Sandra Sallin:
However that is nice. I imply, if I need to breathe, all I’ve to do is stroll. It is like magic.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure, little issues like that. However folks have actually loved it. In order that’s why I believed, nicely, I am going to inform folks about how I have been capable of shed pounds. As a result of we will all, we will all, all of us have the identical drawback. All of us have that weight to lose. All of us must train. And the way many people do it?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
One other wonderful thing about you is that you simply actually keep on prime of all of your physician appointments, which I believe is admittedly vital for folks to go to the physician and observe the physician’s recommendation. You realize, I believe lots of people do not do this.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I believe, yeah, I believe possibly when folks become older, such as you’re similar to, okay, I higher go for all these items.
Peg: However you understand, folks complain about going for a mammogram, like how horrible it’s. I am like, you understand, You gotta do it because- my God, do not, please. I imply, did you see the story I did about simply my newest mammogram?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. The place I believed, I am nice, I am nice, I am nice. After which they are saying, nicely, we have to do some bit extra. And so they did uncover a cyst, however it’s not cancerous. However what if I hadn’t gone?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know. It’s a must to do it, everyone. And it is October, so it is breast most cancers consciousness month. One factor that you would be able to be taught from that is please go get your mammograms and sustain in your physician appointments. Go to the dentist annually. Like that is one other factor folks do not take into consideration as a dentist.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I’m going to the dentist twice a 12 months. Do you go twice a 12 months?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’m going twice. I’m going each six months.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to go each three or 4 months.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You do?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. Effectively, trigger you have bought like your tooth well being is tied to your psychological well being. It is also tied to your coronary heart well being.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Actually?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
It is very, they’re co-dependent.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And you understand, you may get infections in your mouth or in your coronary heart and it could actually go to your, it is one thing. Do not hearken to me, however do hearken to me. You have to go.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure, make all of your appointments. Make each appointment that you could make. Observe up on it and observe the physician’s recommendation. Then you’ll be able to thrive like Sandra. That is what I say.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. Going to each physician recognized to mankind. Effectively.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What it’s a must to, we have now one physique. We solely get one physique.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. You are proper. However anyway, so I do not, I want I have been extra, however I am not. I actually do issues, do issues about what I really feel like doing. I would actually like to do extra about cooking, however they aren’t as in style.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Trigger your viewers is sort of skilled on your pro-aging. And that is why they like your strolling. It is sort of all tied with the identical factor. Identical to for me, folks actually observe me for social media issues. And I additionally discuss being a author. And typically I share like different issues in my life, like little issues. But when I attempt to do make-up content material, assured folks could be like, no, thanks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I used to be pondering of you this morning as I placed on the Pat McGrath powder beneath my eyes that you simply insisted that I have to get.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So sure, it is enjoyable although. get pleasure from it. You have bought nice make-up suggestions. However somebody simply mentioned that they love seeing your kitchen once you prepare dinner. You realize what, I additionally present, I do not know the way anyone can have a dirtier kitchen after they end cooking and even.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Judy says please prepare dinner. Possibly folks do like your cooking.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, however I suppose not sufficient. And I additionally do not have. I haven’t got the format that is good for cooking. My husband desires them to see my face. And he does, sure, he is, know, he is, he is of the old-fashioned. You do not simply present the, the, why cannot I get this white factor gone? What if I-
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peter McNally says, are these Zuck glasses, Sandra? she simply knocked herself out. I’ll pull her again in once more. The web is preventing and Sandra and I refuse to lose. Let’s examine if I can pull her in once more.
Peg Fitzpatrick (27:32.472):
To reply, assume these are simply common glass. I pulled you again in once more. Are your glasses ZEC glasses? do not assume, your glasses are common glasses, proper? They are not just like the, however they don’t seem to be the meta glasses. They’re asking you probably have the meta, the meta glasses with just like the stuff in them. do not even know what that’s. They’ve some tech glasses. Keep in mind when Google glass got here out they usually had the glasses the place you may movie and stuff. Meta has a model of that now, which is hysterical as a result of Google already did it. After which Snapchat.
Sandra Sallin (?):
There was snap, bear in mind when there was Snapchat glasses? I do not even take note of that stuff.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wayfarers. They simply have common glasses. Okay, they need, he needed to know in the event that they have been wayfarers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No, these are Warby Parker, and the fashion is Sonia. Yep. And you’ve got these in a few colours. Proper. I’ve bought them in black and in tortoiseshell. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (29:37.454):
I really like them. I get extra feedback about my glasses. You’ll assume that Warby Parker would possibly give me a pair at no cost? No.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You must contact them for a model partnership. I am going to make it easier to do this. We’ll do this offline.
Sandra Sallin:
Anyway, so sure, these are simply bifocals. I believe they work. Eliminate, you do not see strains. As an alternative, you simply see possibly lips and glasses. I really feel like typically after I put on them that they, I do not know.
Peg: The laborious factor is once you do your make-up and also you spend a lot time and you set glasses on after which it immediately adjustments your make-up. That’s irritating for me.
Sandra Sallin: Have a look at my eyeshadow that you would be able to’t And the way I did my eyebrows. Yeah. Come on. And I did a little bit little bit of lining beneath right here. You realize, the liner. You’ll be able to’t, then you definitely put your glasses on and no person even sees it. That is irritating for me.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Proper. And I by no means put on them after I’m reside. really feel like, I do not know, I get a glare or I do not know. I like my new glasses that I bought, however I simply by no means put on mine on digital camera. Even in pictures. I believe a part of it’s that for pictures, you at all times get some sort of gentle glare or, Do I’ve a light-weight glare? No, you do not. However I’ve a hoop gentle on, so I undoubtedly would. Like, I’ve some, wait, I am going to seize, I’ve some, these are similar to peepers. We’ll see if I get them. If I do get, do I, see I get an enormous, yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay, then possibly you want the 2 gentle factor.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ve the 2 gentle factor on proper now. However I am actually near my gentle ring, in order that could possibly be a part of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Possibly that is it. Mine are over right here on the facet. I haven’t got something. The lights are over right here on the facet. Possibly that is why I am doing it mistaken.
Sandra Sallin:
Nothing in entrance of me. You must speak to Bob. He’ll inform you what to do.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Undoubtedly ought to. Undoubtedly ought to. OK, so we’ll return right here. And I’ll ask you if you happen to may return and provides your self, your youthful self, one piece of recommendation. What would it not be?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Be extra, and have extra religion in your self. Be stronger. Have extra self-confidence. I would say that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, that is a superb one. It undoubtedly comes with age, does not it? I believe 20s and 30s are a really laborious time since you’re so laborious on your self, and you are feeling like your life has all these deadlines. I imply, you bought married younger, however I imply, normally…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I bought married younger too. And we picked nice husbands that we’re nonetheless married. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peg’s husband is a hoot. He is nice. He is very shiny and he is a delight to be with.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I believe similar along with your husband. I believe a part of the factor is a very nice lesson. It issues a lot who you select to be your companion. Proper. It is so vital. And you do not notice once you’re actually younger and also you’re selecting that particular person, you do not even know all of the issues that it is like, are they gonna be good at funds or a superb household particular person or good with youngsters? You do not know any of these issues once you’re relationship folks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I imply, my granddaughter is 22 years previous. I bought married after I simply turned 20. There isn’t a method that I’d need my granddaughter getting married at that age. There’s a lot I do not know that I believed I knew all of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. You undoubtedly, I believe that is the 18 to 24 possibly you assume you understand every little thing and also you’re infallible and well being issues, go to the physician, why hassle? These forms of issues.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
No, I am with you. So I believe that I wanted to have extra self-confidence. Though it by no means stored me from doing commercials, beginning my profession, however I believe that I may have been…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, you understand what? Wait a second. I am a lot older, and ladies weren’t… Have you learnt we needed to have our husbands signal so we may get a bank card?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I used to be simply going to say that as a result of it is solely 50 years since ladies may have a bank card. So that you have been truly married. It was truly simply the fiftieth anniversary of that. So that you have been truly married once you could not have a bank card. Proper. It was an enormous deal to have your individual bank card. And the opposite factor was it was just the start of the lady’s motion. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Look how far we have come, child. No, you understand, we…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
However I really feel like my era like dropped the ball on it. And now I really feel like these youthful ladies are completely selecting up and, and I’ve a lot religion within the Gen Z ladies which can be on the market. Like, you understand, they’re actually good with like, they’re getting nearer to equal pay. Imply, males are preventing tooth and nail on equal pay.
Sandra Sallin (?):
That’s one thing that is ridiculous. And I believed, you understand, there’s so many ways in which that could possibly be gone at this level, you understand, like simply hiring practices, even the web, like when the web got here out, you understand, running a blog was extremely popular and no person may see who was running a blog. It ought to have been equal for women and men and for talking engagements and all of that. And once more, males, it was like males bought all of the e-book offers, males bought all of the talking engagements, males, you understand, males’s blogs the place it is like, why, why, you understand, it is simply, every little thing is…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Ladies must do every little thing that Ginger Rogers, you understand, backwards and in heels. The opposite factor is, bear in mind once you did not give your actual identify since you did not need them to know you have been feminine? So that you simply used initials, and I believe they nonetheless do. I imply, it is horrible.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. And once you’re saying they used to do it, it even goes again to all the best way again to love Louisa Might Alcott when she was writing books, had to make use of a pretend identify so they might purchase her e-book as a result of she was a lady.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It goes method again to love feminine writers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Simply to your proper. However then why did we all know that it was a Louisa Might Alcott? She finally began utilizing her identify as soon as her e-book was actually in style.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Anyone says, our favourite e-book that every of you might have learn this 12 months. That is a superb query. What’s your favourite? I’ve learn so many books. What was your favourite?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Extraordinary Lifetime of Sam Hale. I didn’t learn that one.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
That is by Robert Dugoni. That is how I began with him. After which I am studying thriller tales. I am having the most effective time studying thriller tales. I simply learn, I simply completed a thriller.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve simply completed…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Have you ever learn any Laura Dave’s books?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Spell the final identify.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
D-A-V-E Laura Dave.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
The one I simply completed is The Evening We Misplaced Him. It is a thriller. They’re good. They’re good. I like actually could not put it down. I learn the entire thing. I am a quick reader. I learn the entire thing this weekend. I used to be like, wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to know what occurs. Perceive that. Simply wrote her identify down. I am going to test it out.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
When you like thrillers, she’s bought a few good ones. She bought her first, I do not know if it was her first e-book, however certainly one of her books was picked up in Reese Witherspoon’s e-book membership. So it was big and it was became that, right into a collection on Apple with Jennifer Garner. So that is the e-book that she has after that.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Good for her.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, she’s checked out a variety of books.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You realize, it is like Reese Witherspoon, you understand, we’re not speaking about social media, simply in case you have been . However take a look at all these ladies who’ve these e-book golf equipment and purchase these books in order that they’ll produce them and that they’ll, you understand, characteristic ladies, you understand, as a result of who else desires to characteristic ladies?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know, Reese Witherspoon has actually executed so much for that with beginning her manufacturing firm. And when she began it, I simply learn an article about it as a result of it was like,
Sandra Sallin (?):
the fifth anniversary, assume possibly of it. And he or she made no cash in any respect to start with. And he or she mentioned, I had no thought how the manufacturing and labored in any respect on it. And so they have been like, do not ever, like all of her monetary advisors have been like, do not do that. However she was like, I must characteristic ladies. Want, folks have hearts and it could actually’t all be the male perspective and the male cash and the, the tales should be totally different advised by totally different folks. So she produced a few issues and it was like,
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
wild and one other one which was simply as large and she or he, the corporate, manufacturing firm nonetheless made no cash. She was like, how does that occur? Like, this was like an enormous film. It takes, Hollywood is a loopy world over there with cash. Simply work out who someplace somebody’s making the cash, however who is aware of what that’s.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. You realize, film will make billions of {dollars}, however we did not make any revenue. I do not know the way that occurs.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know it is sort of the identical with books. I imply, you, you write a e-book. You you get prematurely after which like my e-book, it is like, it is $30. I do not make $30 on it. I make, I do not even know precisely how a lot, however it’s in all probability like 350 or $4 possibly per e-book. We’re, know.
Sandra Sallin (?):
As an artist, you surrender 50%.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
50 %?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. That is painful, proper?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Very.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Very.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So why is the fee so excessive? As a result of I suppose they must have an artwork gallery. They must, they must hold a brick and mortar place going. That is, I’ve by no means heard of that fee that prime. Imply, authors and also you we have now like 20%, you understand, goes to your agent after which, you understand, then it goes to, you understand, there’s, people who find themselves taking a chunk out, however not 50%.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I actually assume it is as a result of they must have a brick and mortar place and that they must have, you understand, openings. Imply, how a lot can that be for some wine? Proper? Yeah.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Loopy. Ought to in all probability get off since you and I may speak for six hours this weekend.
Sandra Sallin (?):
We may speak without end. And I admire each single one who’s been watching. On this one, I am unsure if we even mentioned it, however I am doing a giveaway of my e-book. When you touch upon this one, there’s going to be two, sadly posts as a result of we bought minimize off and now we’re again. I’ll save this one additionally. So remark social success on both one of many posts from our reside video and I’ll select somebody tomorrow to get a signed copy and I’ll put up who the winner is.
Peg Fitzpatrick (42:15.886):
Tomorrow on my social channels. And somebody mentioned, Sandy, like to see you. Ship you’re keen on from Melbourne, UK. Your followers from everywhere in the world are saying hello.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Is not that fabulous? Thanks. However wait, one factor. Sure. Do folks know who you might be? Do they know?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What sort of a social media knowledgeable you might be. Effectively, in the event that they observe me.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay. Persons are commenting. It may well’t be within the feedback right here. It must be on it after I save this put up as a result of all of the feedback after we’re reside truly disappear. Once I reserve it, it saves as a brand new put up. Is not that loopy? However anyway, it saves as a brand new put up and all of the feedback within the reside are gone.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So that you truly must touch upon the put up after I reserve it. So I will be there in only a second. However there may be one from the primary half. Silly Instagram. So I do not know, do you guys know who I’m? Are you right here from, I do not assume it reveals after we’re reside collectively. Once I seemed that up it mentioned no. However possibly individuals are following you. When you guys do not know, I am Peg Fispatrick. I wrote this e-book, I wrote one other e-book. I have been working in social media for like 15 years, a really very long time.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And I really like social media. So I really feel unhealthy for folks simply becoming a member of now as a result of we’re simply on the brink of head off. Sure, however you have additionally represented folks and been their social media saviors and actually large, large folks. And you’ve got taught folks methods to be, nicely, you have executed their social media. You’re actually knowledgeable and other people ought to know that, that sure, you are actually, actually vital.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do not know if I am vital, however I have been doing it a very long time. I am fairly good at it, that is for positive. I’ve my 10,000 hours in for positive, despite the fact that that delusion was dispelled.
Sandra Sallin (?):
What does 10,000 hours imply?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Keep in mind the Malcolm Gladwell principle that anyone may get good at one thing in the event that they did it for 10,000 hours? I by no means began counting.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You may have your 10,000 hours in if you happen to depend all of your YouTube watching and commenting and…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Assured you do since you’ve been doing this for a very very long time too.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper, you are proper. While you begin from once you began running a blog.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. That was a superb 12 years in the past. You have been doing this for a very long time. You weren’t a beginner, Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I really feel prefer it, although. Daily is a brand new day.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
To be sincere, it is like that for everybody in social media as a result of stuff adjustments. it’s recent. It is all recent and new. So thrilling. Effectively, I’ll finish this as a result of we have now been on a very long time and I actually admire your time. When you guys are following me and you are not following Sandra, please just remember to observe her and take a look at her wonderful Instagram and her YouTube channel, which is unbelievable. And if you’re following her Instagram, it’s best to one hundred percent be following her for her longer content material on YouTube. You must observe her on each as a result of it isn’t the identical actual factor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks very a lot. I admire that little plug.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, you understand, I believe folks do not realize typically that they are following folks on a regular basis and they won’t notice that hopefully they notice however your YouTube channel is your longer type content material. So it is extra Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. Extra Sandra. And you may watch no matter you need. Video on demand.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. Yeah. So I’ll finish and I thanks guys for watching. And subsequent week can be recorded after which we have now two or three, I believe I’ve three extra reside on this collection. So it will be Tuesdays at one o’clock Jap. 10 o’clock.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks a lot. Western. And I’ll see you guys later. Thanks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Thanks, Peg. It is at all times enjoyable.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Completely. Bye.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bye.
